Qualitative Research · Social Research

Relationships During the Pandemic

An exploratory study on how COVID-19 transformed dating culture in the U.S., examining both the immediate impacts during lockdowns and the changes that persisted afterward.

Role
UX Research (team of 3)
Duration
9 weeks
Type
Exploratory, mixed methods
Tools
Google Forms, Miro
Affinity diagramming from interview data

What I wanted to know

How has the pandemic changed dating and romantic relationships?
  • How have attitudes and behaviors toward dating changed?
  • How does a virtual setting affect two people in a dating relationship?
  • How has the pandemic affected the dating process, timeline, and pace?
  • How are communication and physical intimacy achieved and maintained?

How I studied it

1

Survey

44 respondents · 19 questions

Distributed across social media, Reddit, and personal connections over 4 weeks. 77% of respondents said they were meeting in-person during the study period.

2

Remote interviews

8 participants · 1 hour each

Talked with people across different phases of dating, from newly committed and single to broken up during the pandemic and long-term relationships, including a 5-minute "feeling board" activity to surface visual, emotional responses.

3

Diary study

5 participants · 7 entries over 3 weeks

Each entry covered a different theme (communication, tools, interaction, reflection) with text, audio, photo, or video, plus a 5-point pulse-check scale.

4

Analysis

Coding + affinity diagramming

Transcribed and coded interviews descriptively, then used affinity diagramming to identify recurring themes across all three methods.

What I learned

Communication

  • COVID-19 became a common icebreaker, and a filter before meeting in person.
  • In-person conversation was still preferred for deeper, more serious topics.
  • People reported a greater willingness to be open and vulnerable with partners.

Motivation

  • For some, prolonged isolation motivated an active search for companionship.
  • For others, dating "just happened" without actively looking.

Interaction

  • Not meeting in person easily was the most challenging part; physical safety was a real concern.
  • Dates became more casual, especially in committed relationships.
  • "COVID pods" emerged as a new, pandemic-specific social convention.
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